When I 
found out I was pregnant, I...
Cried...
Panicked...
Made an abortion appt...
So did every 
woman that lands on this page.
You're not alone.
We're here for you – whether you explore adoption or not.
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Is adoption right for me?


with Jess Nelson, PairTree Community Manager & 2x Birth Mom

Is PairTree right for me?


with Jess Nelson, PairTree Community Manager & 2x Birth Mom

Considering adoption? Explore adopting families.
You have rights.
If you choose adoption, you have the right to....

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Coercion-Free Options
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You have the right to objective information on your options, as well as the support and resources you need to make an informed decision free from coercion.

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Access to the Most Families
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Separate Legal Representation
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Power Over Your Own Process
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A Post Adoption Contact Agreement
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Lifetime Post-Placement Care
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In an open adoption, personality matters.

PairTree reveals the personalities of the adopting families – the leading indicator of how a family will behave – giving expectant and birth parents a values-based idea of what a future would be like.

"Jester" personality
"Ruler" personality
"Creative" personality
"Lover" personality
"Magician" personality
"Rebel" personality
"Explorer" personality
"Sage" personality
"Neighbor" personality
"Caregiver" personality
"Hero" personality
"Innocent" personality

Expectant Mom’s FAQ

Your questions, answered.

Do I get to choose the family? How do I know they’re safe?

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Can I get help with expenses?

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Will my child know who I am?

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Are the adoptive parents going to be at the hospital?

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What if the child’s father does not know and/or agree to the adoption?

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I know this is an impossible decision.
I've been there...twice. Hardest thing I've ever done. Ask me anything.
Jess Nelson, Community Manager at PairTree and two-time birth mom

Jess Nelson

Community Manager at PairTree

Text or call me at (206) 279-7578