Why PairTree?
You have options
We encourage you to explore all of your options: parenting, terminating and adoption. You can move at your own pace, and we'll empower you to determine your best path forward. No pressure.
The more control you have over your options, the more confident you'll feel in your choice.
You have choices
If you want to explore adoption, you can connect directly with adopting families that have been approved to adopt and to ethical adoption professionals to help guide you on your adoption path.
We believe expecting and birth families should have access to the nation of adopting families.
You have control
While you might not feel it now, you can control your adoption journey. You decide what's important to you, you decide how much involvement you want, you decide which families to connect with, how far the conversation goes and the level of support you need.
On PairTree, you make connections on your terms.
You have us, always
You're not alone. On PairTree, you can connect to the support services you need before, during and after the adoption is finalized.
Have questions?
Text Jess: (206) 279-7578
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Coercion-Free Options
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Access to the Most Families
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Separate Legal Representation
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Power Over Your Own Process
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A Post Adoption Contact Agreement
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Lifetime Post-Placement Care
How PairTree works for you.
Everything you need to make an informed decision and find exactly what you're looking for
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Connect
View as many personality-based profiles as you want to find exactly who you are looking for without pressure to choose a family.
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Legal
Access our nationwide network of licensed, ethical adoption professionals to guide you through the legal process.
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Support
We’re committed to ensuring families have the support they need to navigate the dynamic relationships that are created before, during and after an adoption is finalized.
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You have questions. We have answers.Best of all, you have choices.
Jess Nelson
Community Manager at PairTree
In an open adoption, personality matters.
PairTree reveals the personalities of the adopting families – the leading indicator of how a family will behave – giving expectant and birth parents a values-based idea of what a future would be like.
JesterThe life of the party. Turning mundane into fun and enjoyable. Spontaneous, playful, and witty – with an emphasis on the here and now, bringing joy to the world through humor, fun, and irreverence.
RulerResponsible and organized – they can create order from chaos. Absolutely comfortable with volunteering to take charge. 'Rulers' have a significant respect for hard work, authority, and patriotism.
CreativeOften described as artists, creators and inventors. Prizes being completely and entirely original. Has lots of ideas and a powerful imagination. Driven to build things that add value to the World.
RomanticFeels all the feels. Committed & faithful. Passionate about everything they do – with attentive, intense, and very personal connections. They create intimate moments and inspire love. Likes to please others.
MagicianExcellent at identifying potential in people and situations. Bends over backwards to make everyone feel special, and to make dreams come true. Commonly referred to as visionaries and innovators.
RebelSwims against the current. Not afraid to think or act differently than societal norms. Questions status-quo. Often described as revolutionary, deriving power from the people. Free-minded and free-spirited.
ExplorerThese people seek authenticity find inspiration in travel, risk, discovery, and the thrill of new experiences. 'Explorers' seek a better world with an emphasis on the journey...
SageInformation fuels them. Excellent at research, often serving as a thoughtful mentor or advisor. Values wisdom and continuous learning. Committed to gain deeper insight and constantly building on their expertise.
NeighborThe friend you want. The 'neighbor’s' underlying value is that everyone matters. Seeks connections and belonging; is recognized as supportive, faithful and down-to-earth.
CaregiverOozes compassion, generosity, and a desire to help others. 'Caregivers' exhibit exponential concern and attention. Protects and cares for others – with unparalleled selflessness.
HeroMotivators. Possesses courage, ambition, and competence – with strong moral character. These people triumph over tragedy, and major challenges – often inspiring us all to make the world a better place.
InnocentValues the simple things in life. Loves traditions. Makes time for everyone. Guided by goodness, nostalgia, and wholesomeness. 'Innocents' exhibit happiness, optimism, safety, and youth.
I knew what I wanted -- and found exactly what I was looking for!
Iris
Birth Mom