Add self-matching to your adoption process!
Ten matches in nine months, with 30+ Expectant Moms registering every month.
Whether you are looking for couples to adopt or hoping to connect with an expectant mom, PairTree increases and accelerates ethical connections between Adopting Families and Expectant Moms.
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Choose an Adopting Parent's Personality!
75% of Birth Moms say an Adopting Parent's personality-type is as important to them as an open adoption. That’s why we created LifePair™ - a proprietary, personality-based matching system that evaluates 100+ unique attributes to inform an adoptive parent’s personality type.
We give Expectant Moms meaningful information about the Adopting Family – to help her choose a future.
Avoid Adoption Scams
Our Verify system is the most robust scam detection system of any self-matching platform, allowing you to make connections with confidence. We use comprehensive identity verification software to prevent adoption scammers.
If you are contacted by someone that flags one of our markers, we notify you within 48 hours with actionable next steps.
PairTree Adopting Parents
Make a Difference!
Adoption is lopsided. Birth moms give the most and get the least. Providing lifetime support for birth moms should be standard, not an option that expires. That’s why PairTree donates 5% of net profit from every subscription, every month to organizations that provide support for birth moms.
Learn MoreThe Stories That
Motivate Us
We’re so happy to introduce you to
Seth & Barret.
Adoption is a journey. In these features, we give hopeful adoptive families the space to share what they’ve learned, what they’ve struggled with, and what keeps them going.
Expectant Moms make the first move...
Our Waiting Families would love to hear from you. Start your search today – it's free and 100% confidential!
Once we went “live,” we connected with our son’s birth mother in less than a month. In the end, it was far less of a wait, and definitely far less cost. We have an open adoption with the birth parents and couldn’t be happier to have this relationship for all of us.
The PairTree Adoption Process
Your Self Matching Process
1. Join PairTree
Connecting adoptive parent(s) with expectant moms so that they can choose a family based on what’s important to them.
3. Optimize Your Profile
When building your profile, remember to be more afraid of being the same than you are of being different. Watch CEO, Erin Quick’s video on how to do it
5. Finalize the Adoption
Work with your agency or attorney to finalize the adoption. Need an adoption professional? See our list here.
2. Upload Home Study
A home study is basically an in-depth interview process for adopting parents, and is done by a social worker or an agency in your State. Need a home study? See our list here.
4. Find Your Pair
Our proprietary algorithm maps your personality type to those personality attributes desired by expectant moms – so you’ll make smarter connections, faster.
6. Engage in the Community
Gain and share wisdom and get answers to your tough questions, and logistical challenges from parents and professionals that have been in your shoes.
1. Join PairTree
Connecting adoptive parent(s) with expectant moms so that they can choose a family based on what’s important to them.
2. Upload Home Study
This is basically an in-depth interview process for adopting parents, and is done by a social worker or an agency in your State. Need a home study? See our list here.
3. Optimize Your Profile
When building your profile, remember to be more afraid of being the same than you are of being different. Watch CEO, Erin Quick’s video on how to do it
4. Find Your Pair
Our proprietary algorithm maps your personality type to those personality attributes desired by expectant moms – so you’ll make smarter connections, faster.
5. Finalize the Adoption
Work with your agency or attorney to finalize the adoption. Need an adoption professional? See our list here.
6. Engage in the Community
Gain and share wisdom and get answers to your tough questions, and logistical challenges from parents and professionals that have been in your shoes.
Start your journey today.
Join PairTreeAbout PairTree
We started PairTree for one reason – the approach to adoption needs to be modernized.
Learn more about why our CEO, Erin Quick, is passionate about modernizing the adoption process and how her experiences inspired her to create PairTree.
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