Six matchesin six months!

On average, 20 new Expectant Moms register on PairTree every month.

Whether you are looking for couples to adopt or hoping to connect with an expectant mom, PairTree puts you in the driver’s seat – giving you the ultimate confidence and control in your adoption.

Let Your Personality Shine!

75% of Birth Moms say an Adoptive Parent's personality-type is as important to them as an open adoption.

That’s why we created LifePair™ - a proprietary, personality-based matching system that evaluates 100+ unique attributes to inform an adoptive parent’s personality type – giving Expectant Moms meaningful information about the adoptive family (rather than just pretty pictures).

Connect with Confidence

Our Verify system is the most robust scam detection system of any self-matching platform, allowing you to make connections with confidence. We use comprehensive identity verification software to prevent adoption scammers – notifying you within 24 hours of any suspicious behavior. We’ve got your back!

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Make a Difference!

5% net profit donated

Adoption is lopsided. Birth moms give the most and get the least. Providing lifetime support for birth moms should be standard, not an option that expires. That’s why PairTree donates 5% of net profit from every subscription, every month to organizations that provide support for birth moms.

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Expectant Moms make the first move...

Our Waiting Families would love to hear from you. Start your search today – it's free and 100% confidential!

Sara
& David

  • Complete the sentence, “I can’t live without……”

    my family, the Wall Street Journal, soccer and coffee! - David

  • In five years, our relationship with you will...

    We are open to whatever type of relationship you want- very open, or closed. We can figure it out together! - Sara

  • I hope you are...

    being supported as you make this difficult decision, safe and healthy. - David

  • Dogs or cats?

    Dogs- in particular, our dog Murray, the sweetest 13 year old Cavalier King Charles Spaniel. - Sara

Ayano
& Ra

  • My best friend would describe me as......

    Crazy and laid-back (Yeah, somehow it's possible to be both) - Ra

  • If you had to pick a famous person to play you in a movie, who would it be?

    Chiwetel Ejiofor (Victor Sweet from Four Brothers) - Ra

  • I would never...

    Touch a black man’s radio! (quote from Rush Hour) - Ra

  • What is the best word to describe your family?

    Caring, funny, and unique individuals. - Ayano

Fernanda
& Lance

  • If I could have dinner with anyone -- dead or alive -- I would pick...

    I would pick Nelson Mandela because I am in awe of his ability to stand up for the rights of the oppressed, while forgiving the people and system that created so much difficulty and pain in his life. - Lance

  • My favorite place in the World is...

    My favorite place is South Africa. When we visited, I enjoyed seeing the animals (especially the lions!) in the wild as well as experiencing a very different culture. The food was amazing too! - Lance

  • My neighborhood is a good place to raise a family because…

    It is very diverse! Here we have people form all cultures and backgrounds of life. I enjoy getting to know my neighbors and extended families, and love all of the different cuisines! - Fernanda

  • In five years, our relationship with you will...

    Our relationship will be even better. Having a child together is a dream we had for so long and our family will be complete; our relationship will be solidified as parents. - Fernanda

Once we went “live,” we connected with our son’s birth mother in less than a month. In the end, it was far less of a wait, and definitely far less cost. We have an open adoption with the birth parents and couldn’t be happier to have this relationship for all of us.

Danielle G. California

The PairTree Adoption Process

Your Self Matching Process

1. Join PairTree

Connecting adoptive parent(s) with expectant moms so that they can choose a family based on what’s important to them.

3. Optimize Your Profile

When building your profile, remember to be more afraid of being the same than you are of being different. Watch CEO, Erin Quick’s video on how to do it

5. Finalize the Adoption

Work with your agency or attorney to finalize the adoption. Need an adoption professional? See our list here.

2. Upload Home Study

This is basically an in-depth interview process for adopting parents, and is done by a social worker or an agency in your State. Need a home study? See our list here.

4. Find Your Pair

Our proprietary algorithm maps your personality type to those personality attributes desired by expectant moms – so you’ll make smarter connections, faster.

6. Engage in the Community

Gain and share wisdom and get answers to your tough questions, and logistical challenges from parents and professionals that have been in your shoes.

1. Join PairTree

Connecting adoptive parent(s) with expectant moms so that they can choose a family based on what’s important to them.

2. Upload Home Study

This is basically an in-depth interview process for adopting parents, and is done by a social worker or an agency in your State. Need a home study? See our list here.

3. Optimize Your Profile

When building your profile, remember to be more afraid of being the same than you are of being different. Watch CEO, Erin Quick’s video on how to do it

4. Find Your Pair

Our proprietary algorithm maps your personality type to those personality attributes desired by expectant moms – so you’ll make smarter connections, faster.

5. Finalize the Adoption

Work with your agency or attorney to finalize the adoption. Need an adoption professional? See our list here.

6. Engage in the Community

Gain and share wisdom and get answers to your tough questions, and logistical challenges from parents and professionals that have been in your shoes.

Start your journey today.

Join PairTree

About Us

We started PairTree for one reason – the approach to adoption needs to be modernized.

Learn more about why our CEO, Erin Quick, is passionate about modernizing the adoption process and how her experiences inspired her to create PairTree.

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