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Adoption is never part of the plan.

No matter the circumstances that got you here – we’re here to ensure you know your rights and get connected to an ethical, licensed adoption professional.

Want us to reach out to you?

Want to talk? Meet Jess.

I've placed two children for adoption. Ask me anything. No question is off-limits, and all conversations are free and completely confidential.

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Expectant Mom Bill of Rights

You have rights.

If you choose adoption, you have the right to....

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Coercion-Free Options

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Access to Families

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Separate Representation

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Power Over Your Own Process

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A Post Adoption Contact Agreement

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Lifetime Post-Placement Care

Meet Adopting Families

Adopting families are home study approved and working with licensed, ethical adoption professionals.

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Considering adoption?

Connect with Professionals & their Adopting Families

I wish PairTree had been around when I was making an adoption plan. Instead, I was limited to one agency and just a couple of families.

PairTree gives you access to 100+ licensed adoption professionals and their home study-approved families to ensure you have the choice, control, and support you deserve.
– Jess

Explore Adoption Professionals

Find a local adoption professional who has your best interest in mind.

Explore Adopting Families

Explore as many families as you want to find what you're looking for.

Need to talk? We are here for you.

Jess has been where you are. No question is off limits.

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Is PairTree right for me?

with Jess Nelson, PairTree Community Manager & 2x Birth Mom

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What is the Expectant Mom Bill of Rights?

with PairTree Founder Erin and Community Manager Jess sharing the essential rights for expectant moms considering adoption

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What should expectant moms know about adoption?

All your questions answered by Jess

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You have options. You have rights. You have control.

The Expectant Mom Guide to Adoption

Facing an unplanned pregnancy is exactly that…unplanned, and not what you had imagined for yourself. If you’re considering adoption, it’s important you understand what that process looks like.

Our Guide empowers you with the essential knowledge you need to navigate the adoption journey, ensuring that your needs and wants come first.

Knowledge is Power.
Adoption laws vary by state and we want to make sure that you have all of the information you need to make the best decisions for you.
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Need a recommendation to an ethical adoption agency or attorney?
Jess can help!

Expectant Moms FAQ

Your questions, answered.

We want to make sure you have all of the information you need to safely and healthily navigate your adoption journey. Let us know if you have other questions!

Text Jess at (206) 279-7578.

Do I get to choose the family? How do I know they’re safe?

Can I get help with expenses?

How does PairTree support expectant moms?

Will my child know who I am?

Are the adoptive parents going to be at the hospital?

What if the child’s father does not know and/or agree to the adoption?