90% of adoptions are open.
That means you will be connected in some capacity forever, which makes finding the most compatible family for you super important.
Choose the family's personality
Our profiles reveal the personalities of the adopting families – the leading indicator of how a family will behave – giving expecting moms a better idea of what a future would be like.
I never thought we’d connect on a site like this, but it happened in less than two weeks!
Max & Kelsey
Adopting Family
The Benefits of PairTree Connect
Modern adoption requires modern solutions to creating highly-compatible connections, ethically, safely and transparently.





Connect directly
Connecting directly allows you to start building your relationship from Day 1 – after all, it's the two of you who will determine what the future holds.

We're looking out for you
All interactions are subject to our Safe Connection Filters – where we constantly track four major markers, so you can focus on connecting, not investigating.

Clear Performance
Information is power. We provide analytics on how your profile is performing – along with helpful data on the activity of our Community.

We keep our Community balanced
For expecting moms, we provide the most choice (and encourage pickiness!). For adopting families, we provide the most opportunity to connect. Ensuring a healthy ratio is how we keep our Community balanced.
I knew what I wanted -- and found exactly what I was looking for!
Iris
Birth Mom

The Stories That Motivate Us
Seth & Barret: connected in two weeks!
"PairTree made the process of connecting with a birth mom transparent, and simple, in a way no other service or agency could. We’re forever grateful to PairTree for being the platform that connected us with Iris, the birth mom of our almost one-year-old son Estes and a part of our daily lives."
There's a lot of value packed into PairTree Services.
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Connecting is becoming more social.
You don't need social media accounts to be promoted in social media. We'll amplify your profile across social media using our custom approach.
Step 1
Create a profile
Be more afraid of being the same than you are of being different!
Step 2
We promote your profile
You're seen by certain expecting moms on social media.
Step 3
Watch your views rise!
More views means better chances of finding the right connection.
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Frequently Asked Questions
We want to make sure you have all of the information. Let us know if you have other questions!
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