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Megan

Caregiver

Gender:

Female

Status:

Home study has been approved

State:

New York

Religion:

Catholicism

Education:

Ph.D. or higher

Profession:

History Professor/Art Historian

Political Affiliation:

Prefer not to say

Adam

Caregiver

Gender:

Male

Status:

Home study has been approved

State:

New York

Religion:

Catholicism

Education:

Master’s Degree

Profession:

Graduate Student

Political Affiliation:

Prefer not to say

Our fam with beloved babysitter Kathi

Our fam with beloved babysitter Kathi

Mama and Dada are Professors!

Mama and Dada are Professors!

Mama and the boys in 2021

Mama and the boys in 2021

My philosophy on parenting is...

To give the child a limited amount of freedom within firm limits. "Let the child think they are in charge" or let them come up with a solution to resolving conflicts often works like a charm

-Megan

My neighborhood is a good place to raise a family because…

We live in a wonderful walkable village with many playgrounds, shops, and friends around.

-Adam

My best friend would describe me as...

Warming, Caring, Kind, Patient and Compassionate as a mother. I am totally dedicated to my children and family and structure my work life around their needs to be a present parent. I am dedicated to serving others and the community. I am involved in the supporting the Children's Library of the local public library. One of my best friends recently told me that I was glowing as I was enjoying the time around my children before school started this fall.

-Megan

My neighborhood is a good place to raise a family because…

We live in an idyllic village community within walking distance of schools, playgrounds, farmers' markets. We have superb public schools and we send our children to public schools because their offer more diversity and inclusion than the private options. We have a warm circle of friends who are supportive of our adoption journey.

-Megan

Max, Otto, Theo-- 2021 Christmas Card

Max, Otto, Theo-- 2021 Christmas Card

Megan and Adam with baby Otto

Megan and Adam with baby Otto

Weekend Family time at zoo!

Weekend Family time at zoo!

Do I have kids? How do they feel about a sibling?

Yes, three boys--6, 3.5, 1.5. They are so excited to welcome a new sibling! (We also had a daughter who died as an infant and would have been 7)

-Adam

We are the best choice because…

WE PROMISE TO UNDERTAKE THE ADOPTIVE PROCESS WITH COMPASSION, KINDNESS AND RESPECT --WE PROMISE TO HONOR YOUR STORY AND WHAT YOU SHARE WITH US --WE PROMISE TO PROVIDE A SAFE AND WARM HOME LIFE WHERE YOUR CHILD BELONGS AND FEELS LOVED --WE PROMISE TO BRING OUR YEARS OF EXPERIENCE AS PARENTS TO THE NEW CHILD --WE PROMISE TO AGREE ON A LEVEL OF OPENNESS THAT WORKS FOR ALL OF US --WE PROMISE TO DO WHATEVER IT TAKES TO HELP YOUR CHILD FEEL LIKED A LOVED, SPECIAL, VALUED AND IMPORTANT MEMBER OF OUR FAMILY --WE PROMISE TO FILL THE CHILD'S LIFE WITH FAMILY AND FRIENDS THAT SUPPORT HIM/HER --WE PROMISE TO TELL THE CHILD ABOUT YOU AND GIVE HIM/HER A LETTER FROM YOU --WE PROMISE TO SEND YOU PICTURES, STORIES AND KEEPSAKES AND BE AVAILABLE TO PROVIDE UPDATES SO YOU NEVER HAVE TO WONDER IF YOUR BABY IS DOING WELL

-Megan

Favorite season and why?

I love the autumn, with the beginning of cooler weather and the feeling of transition.

-Adam

Three years from now, I hope our child’s birth mom is…

In a great place in her life and believes firmly that her child was placed in a warm, happy home where he or she will thrive. I hope that she will feel confident that her decision was best for her and her child. I also hope that she knows that we are open to contact and delivering update to her. She should never worry about her child!

-Megan

My philosophy on parenting is...

Nothing is more valuable for our kids than our attention. We are present parents in all senses of the word.

-Adam

Do you consider yourself religious or spiritual?

We are praticing Catholics and integrate values of compassion, kindness and foregiveness into our daily lives.

-Megan

Do I have kids? How do they feel about a sibling?

We have three living children--3 boys (see below) and a daughter who died of a congential heart condition. All of our living children are very warm and open and would welcome a new sibling with open arms! OTTO (6) is a bright, kind and curious child who shares his parents’ loves of learning and libraries. Because Otto is the eldest of 3, he is very patient and is able to relate to younger children with kindness and compassion. He is an excellent “mini-parent” to his baby brother Max and Theo and helps to reason with Theo when he is having meltdowns. He loves to have playdates with both boys and girls, switching between active play and creative and imaginative play (like fairy house hunting). Otto is very artistic and musical as well (he takes piano lessons). THEO (4) is a great team player and gets along well with all of his siblings. Theo is active, outgoing and loves playdates with friends. He seems athletically inclined and very much has a “tough guy” personality. He is obsessed with playing with trucks and also considers himself an “owl expert”—we have a large collection of owl stuffed animals, owl books, and also visit the owls at the local zoo MAX (2) is the charming baby of the family. Ever since he was an infant, he has been an easy, social and outgoing baby; we have loved seeing his warm and outgoing personality develop. Maxi is extremely social and has a great sense of humor; he loves to laugh at his brothers. He is a very affectionate little child and responds well to playing with other children, like siblings of his brothers’ friends. Maxi is currently obsessed with animals and animal noises. What unites all of our children is their strong sibling love and sense of belonging. All of our children love babies and would welcome a new sibling with open arms

-Megan

Fathers Day 2022

Fathers Day 2022

Back to School Fall 2022

Back to School Fall 2022

What is the best word to describe our family?

loving

-Adam

family vacation 2022

family vacation 2022

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