Chris
Caregiver
Gender:
Male
Status:
State:
California
Religion:
Catholicism
Education:
Master’s Degree
Profession:
Teacher
Political Affiliation:
Lean Left
Jenny
Neighbor
Gender:
Female
Status:
State:
California
Religion:
Catholicism
Education:
Bachelor’s Degree
Profession:
Marketing
Political Affiliation:
Lean Left
Three years from now, I hope our child’s birth mom is…
Knows that she is loved. We hope to keep contact with our birth mother if possible. If she chooses to be more distant, that is okay as long as she knows how much we love her.
-Chris
In five years our relationship with our child’s birth mother will…
Be one of love and respect.
-Chris
Do you consider yourself religious or spiritual?
I was raised Catholic and attend church sometimes. I have some issues with the way the Catholic Church has handled some scandals. I don't like how some people use religion for personal gain either.
-Chris
Dogs or cats?
Dogs - love them!
-Jenny
If I could have dinner with anyone—dead or alive—I would pick...
My Aunt Daisy. She recently passed, and he was like a second mom to me. She and I were alike in so many ways - sassy, nurturing, thoughtful, fun, ambitious. I very much miss her.
-Jenny
Complete the sentence, “I can’t live without……”
My family. We bring so much joy to each other. When I am down, they cheer me up. When I am happy, they multiply my happiness.
-Chris
Favorite season and why?
Summer. I am a teacher, so I get to travel and hang out with family. We always try to take a multi week trip over the summer.
-Chris
What’s the first thing that comes to mind when you look at the night sky?
How amazing it is that Earth has life and how far it is away from all of the other planets, solar systems, etc. The next closest star is 4 light years away. That is crazy to me!
-Chris
My favorite YouTube video is: (paste the full link)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Mr_uHJPUlO8 We have been dancing to this as a family for a few weeks now. Our son loves dancing to this!
-Chris
If you had to pick a famous person to play you in a movie, who would it be?
Ryan Reynolds. He is the "it" guy. He is funny, good looking, and seems like he loves being a dad. I try to be funny and love being a dad. Jenny thinks I am good looking and that's all I need.
-Chris
In five years our relationship with our child’s birth mother will…
be one that continues to stay open and that evolves into an extended family.
-Jenny
At Chris's School
My philosophy on parenting is...
Make as many memories, keep our kids nurtured and safe, and inspire curiosity often.
-Jenny
If you had to live on an RV or sailboat for the rest of your life, which would it be?
Sailboat. There are so many cool cities around the world that are near the coast. An RV would only allow you to check out stuff in the North America. Hopefully it is a really big sailboat...
-Chris
We are the best choice because…
We are a hard working family who likes to have fun! Every weekend we check out a new playground or beach around San Diego. We still find time for reading, movie nights, and eating meals together.
-Chris
When we argue, what’s it about?
We don't argue much,. Jenny takes her time getting ready. I always choose the 2nd or 3rd shirt she is deciding on, so we have been avoiding those arguments recently...
-Chris
Do I have kids? How do they feel about a sibling?
Yes, our 2+ year old son is adopted, and he is very eager to have an adopted sibling!
-Jenny
If you had to pick a famous person to play you in a movie, who would it be?
Lucy Liu. I get the often that I look like her, and the roles she often plays is a woman who is fierce, strong, and playful which embodies my personality as well.
-Jenny
Do I have kids? How do they feel about a sibling?
We have a 2.5 year old son named Evan. He seems like he would be happy with a brother or sister to play with.
-Chris
We are the best choice because…
We're both fun, yet responsible parents. Chris & I are very playful as individuals and bring this into our family daily! We have steady jobs & the foundation to create a fruitful life for your child.
-Jenny
What’s the first thing that comes to mind when you look at the night sky?
The beautiful stars!
-Jenny
My best friend would describe me as...
Loyal and fun. At our wedding, he was our best man and described me as someone who tries to see the fun in anything.
-Chris
Dogs or cats?
Dogs. They are loyal and seem to find the positive in everything they do.
-Chris
If I could have dinner with anyone—dead or alive—I would pick...
My father. My dad passed away in 2019. I would give anything for one more meal with him.
-Chris
Complete the sentence, “I can’t live without……”
My son, Evan, and hubby, Chris.
-Jenny
If I could change one thing about the World, it would be...
I want the world to become more equal. There are so many inequalities around the world. I wish all people had the same opportunities that I have had in my life. That is part of the reason I teach.
-Chris
What is the best word to describe our family?
Fun.
-Jenny
My favorite Instagram account is:
https://www.instagram.com/thedad/ Dad jokes and memes. They always make me laugh or smile.
-Chris
The most special thing I own is...
A flag from my father's funeral. My dad was buried at Arlington National Cemetery. I have a flag that was with us the day he was buried. My dad was such an amazing father. I try to be as good as him.
-Chris
Favorite season and why?
Summer - there is so much living happening during this timeframe with various outings at beaches, parks, nature and friends' homes, and a time when an abundance of memories are made.
-Jenny
If I could choose one type of food to eat for the rest of my life, it would be:
Pizza. There are so many variations you can make with pizza.
-Chris
I hope our child’s birth mother is…
Loved. We will honor and love our birth mother. The gift of adoption is the greatest gift anyone can give. I want them to know they will always be loved by us.
-Chris
My neighborhood is a good place to raise a family because…
There are a number of families with younger kids, and it has parks and a beach so plenty of outdoor things to do.
-Jenny