Adoptive Families
Self-matching is the fastest-growing adoption method in the US, and PairTree is leading the charge.
Self-matching is the fastest growing method of adoption in the US. It means you connect *directly* with an Expectant Mom. Once connected, you would then use your Attorney or Agency to finalize the adoption.
Building a direct relationship with your Expectant Mom is invaluable – as you'll most likely be connected for the rest of your lives.
It can also be up to 75% faster and less expensive than the conventional method of adoption. On average, self-matching takes 6-9 months, and the fees (attorney, birth mom living expenses, and marketing) are below $15K.
With our view-tracker feature, you’ll always know how many Expectant Moms are viewing your profile.
321
Expectant Moms have
registered on PairTree!
We don't rely on luck. We use a proprietary, personality-based matching system which means the connections are better, and more highly-compatible.
A few bad apples can ruin the process for many. PairTree uses comprehensive identity verification software to prevent scammers – giving you the confidence you need.
When you are contacted by someone that flags one of our markers, we notify you within 48 hours with actionable next steps..
On average, self-matching takes 6-9 months. We know the wait can feel sooooo long, but with every passing month a portion of your subscription is donated to The 5% Fund – a fund that is pledged to organizations that provide birth moms with lifelong grief support resources.
The 2020 The 5% Fund from 2020 was donated to the Lifetime Healing Foundation.
Does your employer (or your partner’s employer) provide fertility or family-building benefits? If so, you could be reimbursed for any PairTree fees. Just ask your HR rep. Learn how to use fertility benefits on your adoption journey here!
Have Carrot Fertility benefits? PairTree is a direct provider to their 90K members!.
Erin Quick, Founder of PairTree and 2x Adoptive Mom (via self-matching) talks about the differences between the adoption agency method and the self-matching method. Spoiler alert: They are *not* mutually exclusive!
On average, self-matching takes 6-9 months. Whether you are just starting your journey or already working with an attorney or agency – join today to build a profile.
Our proprietary algorithm maps your personality type to those personality attributes desired by Expectant Moms – so you’ll make smarter connections, faster. We also proactively email your profile to Expectant Moms you match with!
Work with your agency or attorney to finalize the adoption. Need an adoption professional? See our list of accredited Adoption Attorneys here.
Start your journey today.
Join PairTree$299 / month
$75 / month*
*All PairTree fees qualify for the $14,440 adoption tax credit in 2021
I50% of PairTree families are working with an attorney, consultant or an agency -- and use PairTree to boost their exposure to expectant moms. If your adoption agency, consultant or attorney’s office subscribes to PairTree, be sure to use their unique promo code on the payment page to receive your reduced monthly fee.
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